The Gift of Fathering…..

What I have come to realize after a decade of practice, as a psychotherapist, is that the fundamental skills needed to be a solid father are not that different from the skills needed to be a good therapist. Learning how to raise up “good men,” and learning how to...

“Love is NOT a mystery!”

Despite what zillions of individuals believe, write prose and poetry about, sing, clash, fight and sadly even kill about, “Love is NOT a mystery!” It is a survival code deeply wired into our DNA, and the DNA of all mammals. It is a language. This language...

Hold Me Tight Seattle

A Weekend for Couples Who Want to Strengthen and Deepen Their Relationship, Connection and Intimacy October 18–20, 2013 The Westin Hotel, Downtown Seattle Space is Limited. Details at: Hold Me Tight Seattle

Recent presentation on Anger and its effect on relationship

Recently presented on Anger and its roll in relationship to the Divorce Support Group at University Presbyterian Church in Seattle. Steve Elde, Pastoral Care Associate of UPC shares; “With his insights and his understanding of how people react to emotions in...